DATING, COMMUNITY & SOCIAL APPS

Ten thousand people join on Friday. The feed stops loading on Saturday.

Dating, community and social apps live or die on two things nobody builds first: how fast a feed loads on a mid-range phone, and what happens when somebody behaves badly at three in the morning.

Feeds
BUILT TO STAY FAST WHEN FULL
Day one
REPORTING AND BLOCKING
Chat
WITH DELIVERY AND PRESENCE
Mid-range
THE PHONE WE TEST ON
01 — THE PARTICULAR HEADACHES

Four things that break a social product.

01

The feed is fast until it is popular

A timeline that queries everything on every scroll is fine with two hundred users and unusable with twenty thousand. This is the single most common reason a launch goes quiet.

02

No moderation until something happens

Reporting, blocking and a queue somebody actually reads are treated as phase two. They are not — the app stores will ask, and your first bad actor will not wait.

03

Notifications that drive people away

Push is the cheapest way to bring someone back and the fastest way to get uninstalled. Without preferences and batching, the two are the same button.

04

Chat built as an afterthought

Delivery state, read receipts, presence and ordering look simple until two people message on a weak connection. Retro-fitting this is close to rebuilding it.

02 — WHAT WE BUILD FOR THIS TRADE

Three routes for a social product.

FASTEST ROUTE

The core loop first

Profiles, the feed, and one way for two people to reach each other — built properly and launched. Everything else waits until real people are using it.

  • A feed that stays fast as it fills
  • Chat with delivery state and presence
  • Report, block and a moderation queue from day one
SCALE WORK

Fixing one that already launched

Where an app exists and has slowed down. We profile what is actually slow rather than rewriting it, which is usually a small number of queries and one missing index.

  • Feed and query profiling against real data volume
  • Caching and pagination that survives growth
  • Push rebuilt around preferences, not volume
FULL BUILD

Matching and discovery

Where the product is the matching rather than the posting — dating, marketplaces, communities with interest graphs. The ranking is the product and deserves the time.

  • Matching rules you can change without a release
  • Discovery that does not show the same ten people
  • Safety tooling before launch, not after
03 — WHAT WE HAVE ALREADY SHIPPED HERE

What this work looks like.

A feed and chat screen
APP

Community and dating apps

Native and Flutter builds with profiles, matching, chat and the safety tooling the stores ask for. Tested on mid-range Android, because that is what most users have.

A timeline under load
BACKEND

Feeds that stay fast

The part nobody sees: pagination, caching and the query work that decides whether a timeline loads in a moment or in a spinner.

A moderation queue
TOOLING

Moderation desks

The internal screen where reports land, get actioned and leave a record. Unglamorous, and the reason an app survives its first bad week.

04 — WHAT OWNERS IN THIS TRADE ASK

Four questions, answered before the call.

There is no single number — it depends on how the timeline is queried, not how many people are on it. We have seen apps struggle at two thousand and others fine at two hundred thousand. The honest answer comes from looking at the queries, which takes an afternoon.

05 — YOUR SETUP

How many people are on it now, and how slow has it got?

Tell us roughly how many users, what the feed does on a bad day, and whether anyone is reading the reports. That is usually enough to say where the problem actually is.

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